Xiaren is fine, but she's an orphan and works in an entertainment industry rife with gossip and public scrutiny. Being an actress isn't necessarily a bad thing; after all, Limo's grandmother was one of the most legendary Chinese Hollywood stars.
If she could reach that level, she would be a suitable match for Si Limo. But it all depends on how hard this girl is willing to work. This is how the world works: people will criticize you for your background unless you're exceptional enough to match him.
That being said, she wasn't the one choosing her son's wife. Even as the lady of the family, she had no right to meddle in others' affairs.
